When I was growing up there were three things the women in my family said repeatedly. "I'm not as smart as some and not as stupid as others." "We're as good as anybody else and better than some." "I'm exercising my prerogative to change my mind."
I haven't used any of these terms in my life that I'm aware of, except for the last one. I do occasionally exercise my prerogative and change my mind. I practiced that today.
Just recently I'd said, I wasn't going to can those bags of collards that were eating up space in my freezer. I was going to cook them, preferably in the slow cooker outdoors, then freeze them. This was due in part to my desire to season the greens as they cooked and partly due to the fact that I like pot likker, the juices the collards cook in, rather well. I find the liquid left behind after cooking very tasty and it's full of all those nutrients that cooked from the greens which makes it like a health boost in my personal opinion.