Thrifty Thursday: Not Quite Done

 


Saturday:  We went to our favorite restaurant today.  As usual we skipped the appetizers, we ordered water to drink and then we brought home half our meal each, which we had for dinner.

Sunday:  John went into the grocery to pick up the chicken for today's dinner.  He also bought me an iced tea and himself a bottle of water and then he got a small fruit cup and a lemon.  Why the lemon?  Because he's on a gig of drinking lemon in his water which will do him no harm at all.

I entered the receipts into both Ibotta (earned 20c) and Fetch rewards.  It all adds up.

Savoring December 2023

 


This is one month that can be very busy and hectic.  It's also a month just full of things that we can enjoy, many of which cost next to nothing.  It's not hard to right a 'Savoring' list for a month like December. 

I'm not going to say I'm doing every one of these things, but I am listing a load of things that I find pleasurable in this month and perhaps some of them might go on your bucket list as well.

#1.  Obviously the putting up of a tree is a moment to enjoy.  I encourage you, even if you live alone or generally don't put up a tree, get a small tree and just put lights on it.  The soft glow is the best sort of ambient lighting, and you'll find it oddly consoling in the dark of the evening and early morning, to see those lights glowing softly.  

December Goals: I'm Not Early...


I was sitting down going over various lists and such and realized that December is a busy-ish month.  It happens that our small groups have all decided to table all meetings for the month and I think that is just as it ought to be.  We've already got one firm commitment for a special program for our church.  There will be other things we wish to do.  It's going to be a busy month.

And for that reason, I'm declaring the last week of November as prime planning time for December and for getting started on all the extra tasks that December can bring.

The Homemaker Plans Her Week: It Goes So Quickly

 



We had a lovely time alone last week. I enjoyed it thoroughly.  I got several tasks done and I rested well.  I am still amazed at how easily we fall into our old routine of work and creative pursuits.

I missed Caleb and Katie like crazy...Seriously.

Caleb goes to school three half days this week.  There will be plenty of free time and plenty of time to fall back into our former routines.  I was telling Caleb on Thursday that he'd be going back to school on Monday and Katie said, "No Mama.  Not until December.  He'll be home all next week.  They are closed."  Ugh.  Not because I don't want to see him...I just hate that he has to miss another week of school.  He honestly thinks we aren't telling him the truth and that he's not going back to school.  I think I'll fix him up a calendar page so he can count down the days until he's back in school.  If weather is pleasant, we'll be spending LOTS of time outdoors and if not, then we'll figure out how to give him enough time outdoors to burn off some energy even if it's just on the porches.

Thrifty Thursday: Two for One

 

Friday:  I don't know why this popped in my mind last night, but there I was at midnight, suddenly thinking of what was in my freezer and one casserole dish in particular that I recall is there.  Which led me to think of the fact that I also tucked some chow mein noodles into the freezer to go with the casserole and then that led me to think of someone saying that chow mein noodles can turn rancid rather quickly.  Which led me to, "Oh! I have another packet of chow mein noodles in the pantry...I should do something with them."  Yes, this is indeed how my mind works.  

That last thought of using the chow mein noodles had me recalling that in the past few months I'd noted that some people make what I call haystacks but with chocolate chips instead of with the butterscotch chips Mama used.  I knew I had a container of mixed salted nuts that we weren't eating as quickly as I'd thought we might...So I had this inspiration to make chocolate haystacks using the mixed nuts.

Diary of a Homemaker's Week: Thankful

 


Saturday:  John was sort of pushed into serving as the worship leader for a ministry that the church has a huge hand in.  Mind you all, the person who 'pushed' did so nicely and brought John and the man who does the ministry together and they agreed that John would be at the Homeless Outreach today.  Of course, John wanted me to come along, something I'd rather dreaded, not because I feel I am above the homeless that they serve, but because I sincerely 'feel' so deeply for these people and the plight they are in, as well as finding myself struggling with old skeletons in my own closet regarding substance abuse and an unwillingness to take responsibility for where they find themselves.  Some are truly just lost souls, not necessarily spiritually lost, but mentally incapable of doing better and without protectors of any sort who could help.  Some appear to be no more homeless than I am but seem to show up routinely for the free handouts and meals.  Seriously.  You can tell the difference.

November Coffee: Abundantly Done


I'm going to take the week off from posting this week.  There will be no menu post and probably no Thrifty Thursday, but I may pop in with a diary post on Friday.  And then, following the holiday, I will be back to my usual schedule of posting.

I want to take time this week to think about my plans for next year.  I have a few categories that I dwell upon and think about and jot down ideas for: spiritual, marriage, family, personal, blog, finances, home.  I think about what I hope life might look like in the year ahead, consider what it has looked like in the year behind.  It's an important process for me, because without that consideration I tend to just sort of drift aimlessly about through the year.  I gave myself that luxury this year without any resolutions made and no real purpose but, in the year, ahead, I foresee that I might possibly be having a bit more time to myself in which I might actually accomplish things.  And then again, life might toss another curveball and whack me painfully in the shin.  One never knows.

Diary of a Homemaker's Week: There It Went

 


Sunday:  I can say honestly this morning I did NOT want to get up.  I know because the alarm apparently had been sounding for more than five minutes before it even penetrated my sleep fogged brain.  John said he had already been awake and shut his off but figured I'd eventually hear my own alarm.  I stayed in bed and squeezed my eyes shut while he went to take his shower and then I made myself get up at last.

We were a little later leaving this morning, which oddly enough had nothing to do with my late rising.  However, we left later and, on the way, to church I assured John we weren't really late as long as we made it in the door while the countdown was on the screen.  He drove around front to park and let me out.  I yelped as I stepped from the car, "John!  There are the first musical chords!"  I was stepping lively to get in that door.  One of my acquaintances saw me coming and said, "Well you're spry this morning!" 

Thrifty Thursday: On and On We Go

 


Friday:  I made bread today...Well, first I made a mistake and didn't know it until the dough came from the bread machine.  I forgot to add yeast to my dough.  I stood there and contemplated the flat mess and seriously considered just tossing the dough, but I decided to see what I might do to salvage it.

In the meantime, I started a whole new love, beginning with yeast just to be sure that went in!

Step by Step: Do What You Can

 Start where you are. Use what you have.  Do what you can. ~ Arthur Ashe


I thought this quote really applied to this motto and our focus on our food storage this month.  

"Forget about peak performance. Would your results improve if you simply focused on being reliable in the normal moments?

Show up when it's easy to skip. Do the fundamentals and do them well. And so on.

Before you make it complicated, remember there are always simple improvements waiting to be made."

What I've wanted to convey throughout this series is that we are NOT in a hopeless place.  We can do something.   We just need to 'show up'.   And that's where we end this series: Do what you can.

Step by Step: Use What You Have

Start where you are. Use what you have.  Do what you can. ~ Arthur Ashe

Use What You Have.


Well, what do you have?

We've already looked at some of these things in 'Start Where You Are'.    But let's look just a little deeper at things, okay?

The Homemaker Plans Her Week: Throwing Up My Hands

 



We had a lovely birthday party on Saturday, despite the cool, damp, gray day.  The children (six) were raucous and ran through the house.  It is a small house and 11 is quite enough in one room, much less when six of those 11 are running in the same space that 5 adults are trying to sit in.

But it was nice.  It was.  Katie kept the food part of the day very simple and easy.  Cody hooked up the gas grill and showed us how to use it.  He cooked the hot dogs.  We had chips, soda, juice packets, cake.  

Diary of a Homemaker: It's Been a Week



Sunday:  I didn't write a bit yesterday.  I was so weary with whatever this ailment of ours is.  It appears to be a slight cold but the level of tiredness that goes along with it was unexpected.  It didn't stop my getting the kitchen nearly finished with the packing up, but I took it in spells with long rests between.  And naps.  

Of course, there were meals to make as well, but only for the two of us and we managed well enough with whatever I found at hand.  We didn't go hungry.  Whatever ailment, it did not affect our overall appetite.  We weren't starving the way some illnesses will leave you, but we were our usual sort of hungry. 

Thrifty Thursday: On the Other Side

 


I sent out last week's post early by accident.  Mark it down to trying to write, hold a conversation and being generally distracted.  So, this week's line-up will look like a bit more than usual.  

Tuesday:  I looked at the weather early this morning and they were predicting a freeze tonight, not just frost.  That got me in motion to do what I needed to do.  I brought in the plants I wanted to overwinter indoors.  I didn't bring in a lot this year.  Two orchids (I won't count the third one that the girl grand dog decided to chew the pot of until I get it repotted), two Christmas cactus.  I left the Sansevieria and one cactus outdoors to winter over in the bin and see how those do out there.  They all look bad after those last too hot days of summer that they faced.  

Step by Step: Start Where You Are, Part 2

  Start where you are. Use what you have.  Do what you can. ~ Arthur Ashe


Building Your Pantry

At this moment, I think I have enough foodstuffs in the house to feed us a varied diet for three to six months.  I'm slowly building my storage back up to a year's worth of foodstuffs, but I've had a few setbacks in recent years.  At one point we had enough food in the house that we could have gone nearly a year without buying more than fresh produce and dairy.   Then 2020 happened and retirement and family needs arose, and I supplied those from my own pantry and recently I've been keeping a child in my home and shopping only when it's really necessary.

Step by Step: Start Where You Are, Pt 1

 Start where you are. Use what you have.  Do what you can. ~ Arthur Ashe

"Preparedness, when properly pursued, is a way of life, not a sudden, spectacular program. We could refer to all the components of personal and family preparedness, not in relation to holocaust or disaster, but in cultivating a life-style that is on a day-to-day basis its own reward." (President Spencer W. Kimball) from Becky's Monday Message on Frugal Measures blog.

Start Where You Are.

I was reading Patsi's blog, A Working Pantry, the other day and she wrote a post worth reading.  She ends her passage with these words, 

"There is always going to be someone who can do more than you, accept it and move on doing what you can with what's in your hands."


Having myself fallen into the current trend of following homesteaders who do ALL the things and seem to do it with money to spare, I have felt the sense of frustration and yes, helplessness, as I look at our own financial situation and the constraints we have upon our time in our home and realize that I CANNOT do all the things.   

I know how satisfying it is to look at homesteader cellars full of canned goods and to hear of freezers packed with various items, and the gardens that produce enough to feed them for a year and listen to others share about bug out kits and long-term food storage. 

But remind yourself of one thing before you toss up your hands and say, "I'll never be able to get there..."

You can only start at the beginning.  The beginning is where you are right now.

If the beginning looks like you've got enough food to last the week, then that's where you start.  If the beginning looks like enough food to last perhaps a month, then that's where you start.  If the beginning looks like a home with small children and not nearly enough hours in the day, then that's where you start.  If the beginning looks like retirement and limited income and less of that than you'd thought you might have, then that's where you start. You can't begin anywhere else except for where you are!

Let's talk about building up a pantry that can feed you for a month, three months, six months, a year and start right where you are.

This is where I am: I live on a little less than ten acres, and about 3 of it are clear of trees and underbrush.  I have no special equipment with which to till up a garden or even create a flower bed.  I am, at present, 64, and supposedly retired.  I am helping to raise a soon to be 4-year-old boy.  My husband and I share our home with this little boy and his mom.  

I currently make a few things from scratch, but I could do more, and I know it.  However, I have to take into account the time factor because of the little boy.  He needs time and attention, too.

I have only had a proper garden once in my life.  It was hugely successful but that was ages upon ages ago and not here on this property. My current 'garden' consists of lots of pots and two raised beds and a tiered planter full of mostly herbs.  To date, I have harvested 15 tomatoes, a handful of herbs, and currently have carrots and beans and snow peas that were flourishing but not yet ready to produce.  We're about to have our first frosts of the year.  So the dreams of those plants providing us with a thing are done.

In my youth, I often canned items, but I haven't done that in years..  I have only recently acquired an electric pressure canner and had gotten a hot water bath canner just a couple of years before.  I don't do a lot of canning at present.  I make jelly and apple butter. 

I bake bread and cook from scratch.  Over the years, I have built up a pantry, but it's taken time and sacrifice to do it.  My 'pantry' is a makeshift area.  I took over the walk-in closet of one of my bedrooms when my daughter left home and turned it into a pantry area with shelving and bins.  Now my daughter and grandson use that room as a bedroom and the closet needed for their clothing has been an old Chiffarobe and a spare bookcase.

I have passable sewing skills.  I've upholstered furnishings.  I've learned to use paint and ingenuity to transform things.  Over the years, I have learned new skills that have allowed me to do more.  Currently I am attempting to cultivate food.  

Following 2020, I determined that I could do better in being prepared for medical needs.  John, being a paramedic, feels we have what is required for an emergency that might affect wound care.  We don't have a full-blown pharmacy, but we have enough to see us and another family member or two through an onslaught of colds and minor accidents.

I've been trying to make my home more friendly for our elderly years.  We've had our back deck turned into a back porch with low broad steps at one end on which we might easily place a ramp if needed.  We've removed the upper cabinets in our kitchen and are just about to get the kitchen renovated with new lower cabinets in the coming weeks.   We're replacing a deep awkward tub in our master bathroom with a walk-in shower that will be large enough to accommodate a shower chair.  We don't anticipate needing a ramp or shower chair right away, but the porch and altered bath and kitchen will be just as useful to us now as it will be in the days ahead.  I want to be able to stay in my home long term. 

If I were to tell you I'm starting today, this is the place from which I would start my journey.  This would be MY beginning.  You can't start from this place unless you have had the exact same experience and the exact same materials I have right now to work with.  

I do have ideals.  One of my ideals is that I would be able to raise a majority of the produce we'd typically eat.  Because of where I live, I think it would be possible to grow something we might eat fresh year-round.  I'd like to have a few chickens.  I'd love to support local meat producers.  I'd like to be able to can and freeze foods all year round.  I'd like to be less dependent upon the grocery store and more able to buy in bulk those items that we must purchase from the store.  

I'd like to make still more items from scratch than I do now.  That means working harder.  And smarter.

I'd like to be better prepared for emergencies such as long power outages.  We've survived admirably well for a week several times without electricity in the aftermath of severe weather situations and I've learned a few things because of that, including what we'd need to do it better.  The last such outage saw me lose a considerable amount of food from our freezer.  I was lucky that my freezer was very nearly full so larger bulkier items were saved.

My ideal includes continuing to improve our home and property.  I want flowers as near all year round as I can manage.  I would love to have a prettily landscaped yard.  It's not important for preparedness but it is important to me because that's the sort of person I am.  I need to be surrounded by beauty. I would like to replace lesser quality furniture with better quality items that will see us through the end of our years.

This is my beginning.  

In the week ahead we're going to look at how to build a pantry and where that pantry can be located.

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The Homemaker Tries To Plan Her Week: Unknowns




 "In times of change, learners inherit the earth, while the learned find themselves beautifully equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists."

~ Eric Hoffer, The True Believer

Loved this quote that came in a newsletter earlier this last week.  It resonated with me.  Learning, and the willingness to learn, is the one skill that will keep us all in good stead.  The hardest thing in the world is to get into the "But I always...", "I only like..." when what you've always done and what you like is no longer possible in the current environment.  Be willing to change. Be willing to learn.  And yeah, it's okay to do it all while scuffing your toe and whining "I don't wanna..."  Just do it anyway.

Diary of a Homemaker's Week: Not Quite As Planned

 


Saturday:  I went to an estate sale this morning.  Do you know what I like about estate sales?  Often enough they are places where one can plunder through stuff and find all kinds of treasures.  But I also love that I get to walk through houses I might not otherwise have had a chance to know.

I like houses almost as well as I like people.  I like to see how a house, especially an older home evolved over time.  The house I was in on Saturday was unusual because the central hall ran north to south in the house, though the front of the house faced east. I'm curious if that was the original plan or if the house was altered at some point, because the front door opened directly into the living room, and it's been my experience with older homes of this sort that the front and back door generally were at either end of the wide central hallway. 

Savoring November

 

I do not get to every item on my lists for each of these months, but it does make me think about what I might do to increase my enjoyment of the month.  So, I thought I'd do this for November because I feel like I'm going to really need it, with all that we've got going on in our lives just now.

1. Buy apples.  I have asked John to take me to get apples in North Georgia this month.  I had it on my list last month but October sort of took on a life of it's own.  We've got one weekend here in November when this might work for us so I've got my fingers crossed and we'll see.