Diary of a Homemaker's Week: Determined to Praise

 


Saturday:  The cooler weather this morning necessitated a sweater to go to the Rec. Dept. football game.  Josh is on the team this year, so we came to see his first game.  It was a pretty good game, too!  Our team won.  I found though that regardless of what side the kids were on, the parents on both sides cheered everybody on if they made a good move, got up from a tackle, etc.  

Gammy, Bess, Sam, Isaac and Millie were there as well.  It was an absolutely beautiful day.  Isaac was bored and whiny and more interested in snacks than he was in the game.  He showed more interest in the game when I told him I'd pass out snacks every time Josh's team scored which was four times in four quarters, lol.  I am not without my means.  There was a happier little boy than the whiny one next to me as the game went on.

M.F.K. Fisher How to Cook a Wolf: Chapter 1 and 2



I've been reading MFK Fisher's How to Cook a Wolf, a book written in 1942 at the height of rationing and wartime this past month and thought maybe you'd all like to hear my thoughts on each chapter as a sort of book study.  You're more than welcome to join me over the course of my reading.  I believe the book can be found on Kindle as a free book.  I'm sure one of the free library apps would also have it online.  I think it's well worth adding to your bookshelf, not because it's loaded with recipes but more because it's full of some doggone good ideas!

Chapter 1 is titled "How to Be Sage Without Hemlock"

One of the first standout sentences for me was this one:

One of the stupidest things in an earnest but stupid school of culinary thought is that each of the three daily meals should be 'balanced'.

Coffee Chat: Letting Go

 


Hello loves.  Come in for coffee, or hot tea if you please and let us have a nice little chat.  I'll offer you crisp buttery toast to go with it.  How does that sound?  I made apple cake last week, gave about half of it to Sam and Bess and we polished off the rest as our afternoon snacks with coffee.  I haven't even made up my mind yet this week what I might bake, so crispy toast is the best I can offer.

Isn't the coffee good?  Honestly, I never found an affordable k-cup brand that is as good as this coffee.  It's got such a nice rich flavor.  Just plain ol' Great Value Medium Roast.  Cheap as chips as my British friend would say, although these days it's about as much as chips and for coffee it's cheap but not so much for chips which are ridiculously priced as are any potatoes these days.

The Homemaker Plans Her Week: As the Dust Settles


Things have finally started to slow down, and we've worked into a routine of sorts.  It's working for us for now and hopefully will be doable until the end of October.  So, I'm going to return to a loose plan this week and next week when the new month begins, I will do as I've always done and plan in Zone work and all that good stuff.  For this week, I just want to re-introduce some form of routine back into my home keeping. 

Diary of a Homemaker's Week: Wow!

 


Saturday:  Right now, it feels like bad news is the rule of the day.  Steven got a new diagnosis added to his list of injuries today.  Katie and his mother had pushed hard to get more testing that showed up the injury.  It's not uncommon, but it is a little bit serious and can make recovery go a little slower.  

I've spoken with him on the phone finally, feeling that perhaps he might be more cognizant and able to speak.  He's been in and out of surgeries enough that I've been very cautious about calling because I didn't want to disturb what rest he might get.  He sounded well enough for all that he's going through.  I'm glad I had the opportunity to talk with him.

Waste Not, Want Not



 If you use something wisely, sparingly, and completely, it will be less likely that you find yourself in need of anything.

When I was a working mom, I often shopped with good intentions.  Those good intentions didn't include convenience meal items.  No.  I bought lots of produce and fruits and meats.  I was going to serve my family a nutritionally sound meal every single day.  Only I didn't.  Usually, it sat in the fridge until a night came along that I thought I might actually prepare it and then I'd find it had spoiled.  The truth was, I needed help the convenience meals would have given me at the time.  With a 45- minute commute each evening, unpredictable hours, and the lack of fast-food places anywhere nearby, it would have been a great help to have a few frozen entrees or frozen vegetables on hand.  But not I.  Oh no.  Instead, I bought whole foods to prepare for my family.  

Coffee Chat: In September



I seem to be more drawn to coffee chats right now, though I've a long list of ideas and inspirations for posts I want to write upon.  It's just that my mind is so occupied with our present situation that I can't seem to find any oomph to do more than prep meals and very basic housework.  I know that at least three afternoons and one day every weekend, I shall be occupied with Caleb.  That is time consuming to say the least.  We pick him up from nursery three days and keep him each of those evenings until Katie has had time to visit at the hospital after work.  We are all doing our best to give him routine/schedules that he can live with, and he seems to be handling it all fairly well.

Diary of a Homemaker: Doing What We Can

 


Saturday:  I'd at least had coffee and breakfast when Katie called to ask if I'd watch Caleb today.  I headed over to her house, where I spent the morning and afternoon chasing down a very spry almost 3-year-old.   Gramma can move quicker than she'd supposed but all that jogging around the house made her very weary.  By the time Katie returned, I felt like a black cloud and acted like one when I got home.

This is where the unexpected message of a dear soul did me a world of good and allowed me the privilege of messaging with her for a little bit to get my head straightened out.  She helped me see that though I might feel at times that I am caring for everyone, and no one is caring for me, in fact, many of you, including herself, are caring for me with your prayers and your encouragement.  I felt my spirit lighten and the dark cloud lift as we took a few minutes to chat.    

Are You Ready? A Seasonal Inquiry

 


A few different things happened this week that made me stop and really think about what lies ahead.  I am not predicting the long future here.  I'm merely wondering how prepared I am for the next season and the next few months.  

John and I noticed four weeks ago that the grass suddenly slowed down in growth.  We've had enough rain here in our portion of the country the past six weeks or so that it's been growing at the usual rate and then some.  John could barely go 5 days without cutting one of the lawns and then suddenly there was no need to mow for ten days.  We peered at the lawn and pronounced our belief that the growth had slowed way down at supper that night.  In a state where one might easily cut grass from February through December this is unusual enough to be commented upon.

Then I was reading through posts from September 2011.  We had an unusually early and cool fall that month.  Cool enough that we barely used our AC at all.  Again: February through December is our more usual timeline for requiring that at some point most days.  If I recall correctly we had one of the coldest autumns we've had in years with temperatures in the low 20's.  Those are occasional winter temps for us.    

So, we'd noted the grass slowed, the golden rod suddenly started blooming and the mallow flower stems are fat with buds.  I'd noticed John and I both beginning to crave those hot and hearty cooler weather meals.  Mornings have been cooler so that the AC didn't come on at all for a few hours.  There have been days where it cut on and off routinely these last two weeks, even if the oven was going and heating up the kitchen. Then a few leaves began to change color and to drop onto the lawn below.  It's a little early-ish yet for such activity.

I went to read the Farmer's Almanac, which frankly I trust more than most meteorologists, and read of a colder than usual fall ahead for our region and slushy/sleety winter.  Oh my.

That was just one case of wondering if I was ready for a different season.   

I watched Appalachia Homestead's vlog and she shared a bit of folklore to predict a new season.  She asked if people were ready for winter...winter!  And we're not even into fall just yet.  But as she reasoned, it takes time and planning to get prepared.  It reminded me of the fashion industry.   If you want winter clothes, you'd best buy them in the late summer, very early autumn months because come winter, the stores will be full of bathing suits.  It's not just fall decorations in the stores right now, it's fall clothing lines and winter clothing will be in stores well before Halloween arrives.

I've said before, and shall likely say again, I am not a prepper.  I am not interested in being ready for absolutely every scenario and possibility. I don't think we can be fully prepared for every little thing.  But I do know that I need to be aware of what appears to be ahead.  A cold autumn alone is enough to make me want to consider what I might do to insure we are warm and well fed, that we have a source for heating and cooking outside of electricity, that we have warm clothes and cold remedies on hand.  Do we have what is necessary to protect our water supply if we're experiencing extended deep-freezing temperatures come winter?  Do I have enough water in reserve to cover our needs?

How can I help others in my family do the same?  The house in town is our responsibility and there are no alternative sources of heating there.  Mama has no alternative source in her apartment either...Where and how can I help them as well as us?  

Concern over rising prices and possible supply chain breaks has made me consider how and what I shall feed my household as well as what I might need to help others in my family.  I'm trying to see how I can make the very best possible use of what I already have on hand.  I'm checking multiple sales at stores and making wandering trips into stores with which I'm unfamiliar, trying to see how they might compare pricewise and always, always, always snatching up those things that are good, cheap foods.

I'm also considering how I might preserve foods.  My freezer is packed.  I need more storage space, but I really don't want another freezer, except to swap my current chest freezer for an upright.  It's occurred to me that it's time to consider other methods of food preservation, such as dehydrating and pressure canning.  I've a short list of things I want to acquire as finances allow but I'm not discounting what I have already and considering how I might do better.

I know we have ample cold medicines with the exception of needing fresh cough drops.  Those are old and super sticky, the way they get at times. I definitely need to get those.  I have a supply of vitamin C as well as Vitamin C based drink mix.  I would like to get some more shelf stable real fruit juices for the season ahead.  Pineapple juice is always beneficial for colds.  I'm good on pineapple itself courtesy a sale this past spring.  And while I believe in the power of homemade chicken soup, if I'm the one who is sick...I might not feel up to making any.  I'd like to supply my freezer with a bit that could be thawed and reheated.  That means creating room in my freezer as well as preparing it.   A few cans of a good quality chicken soup might not be remiss either. 

It's also time to plan ahead for holiday meals and determine what of those foodstuffs I might go ahead and purchase so that it's on hand.  And mentioning holidays. I've slowly. ever so slowly, started Christmas shopping.  Along about August, I start thinking about Christmas gifts and my goal this year is to be done by October 31.  We'll see if I make that goal or not.  I'm going to have to really get busy.

I'm looking a little further ahead to Spring and planning to order a few flower and vegetable seeds this fall.  You see, I know that Spring always comes, and I might as well be prepared for that, too.

Amazon Associate Affiliate Link

Diary of a Homemaker: The Longest Week

 


Labor Day:  It's been a crazy five days. Katie's fellow is stabilizing, still awaiting that second surgery.  We had Caleb here Thursday night, I stayed with him at his home on Friday and spent the night there. Bess took him to her house Saturday evening, we had a family dinner of sorts on yesterday with happy children and weary adults, then Bess and I did a split shift at Katie's last night.  I kept him through the evening, and she came in to sleep at that house.   John went and picked him up this morning to relieve Bess and I thanked goodness I'd discovered a store of frozen pancakes in the freezer last week just before all of this hit us.

Coffee Chat: Things That Go Bump In the Night



Hello dears.  Coffee?  Icy Cold Soda with Lemon?  Tea?  Have a cup or glass and sit with me awhile.

Many of you thanked me for the post earlier this week.  I wrote that about a week ago and scheduled it ahead.  I have a few more that are also scheduled ahead.  I appreciate that so many of you thanked me.  Today I am writing for me, for myself and you are the recipients of all I have to pour out.  

I've just gone with John to take off trash.  Woohoo.  Not quite the date we were planning for last Friday and put off but there you are.  Dump day.  Not complaining about that.  Not his fault nor mine nor anyone's, just the way things are and that is a small disappointment compared to the volume of things weighing heavily upon me.

Keep Calm



I must say that I'm hearing more and more urgency amongst bloggers and vloggers urging us to stock up now, shortages are coming, etc.  Some are darn near hysterical.  

I continue to remain calm.  I've been feeling the urge to stock up for years now and I've slowly and methodically built-up my pantry and filled my freezer.   Do I have enough food?  I've no idea.  There's really no way to know if there's enough but I assure you, I've done what I could with what I have.  When I see a good price on something, I try to lay in a supply that I can stretch out over a short time period until I see a good price once again.  What's my advice to you?

Update

 

I'll keep this brief because I am emotional and weary.

Katie's boyfriend is stable but still in ICU.  

Katie says he's "Ow" a few times and a couple of other words we shall not repeat.  It's allowed as far as I'm concerned. 

I don't know at this time how much I can or should share about his injuries, prognoses, etc., because of other circumstances but suffice it to say that your prayers for him are so appreciated, and I ask please that you keep them coming.

Diary of a Homemaker's Week: A Fresh Start



Saturday:  Summer Pleasure:  I sat on the porch this morning with my coffee and listened to a Quail calling "Bob White!" from the field.  I've so enjoyed listening to the quail this summer but here of late I've only heard the tree frogs calling up more rain, lol.  Nice to hear the bird for a change! 

A very relaxed and easy day.  I made it a point not to do any work.  I did my nails, Bible Study, pizza, looked up some genealogy work, flipped through the Ball Blue Book looking at recipes for hot water bath canning, found a notebook of inspiration pages I thought I'd lost, and just generally relaxed and enjoyed myself.  

Phase II of the Kitchen



I've had this dream about redoing my kitchen for several years now.  The cabinetry is sturdy as can be and the countertops are an unknown but tough material.  At the time we moved into the house this kitchen was the nicest I'd worked in for nearly 15 years.  I loved the bright white space with lots of natural light and ample storage.