The Week Ahead: July Just Ahead



I enjoyed my break.  There were a few days when I did nothing much and a few days when I worked a bit too hard and one day when I went off thrifting/shopping and spent less than $30 including my lunch.  I didn't find 'treasure' but I did find some useful bits for Katie (baby boy shorts and shirts for summer, a microwave plate) and a couple of packets of flower seeds, a nice heavy, large apothecary jar for food storage,  as well as a shirt for myself.  Those were my purchases for the day besides my lunch and two candles at Hobby Lobby.  

I'll share what I saw though in Goodwill, TJ Maxx and Hobby Lobby.  There's a whole lot of fall/winter stuff out there.  We know that HL always jumps the gun on fall and Halloween and Christmas but I have a feeling that this year it's due to the same reason Goodwill and TJM are showing winter stuff.  It's what is in ready stock and not dependent upon suppliers who didn't/couldn't produce summer items.  Everyone is offering 'clearance' but truth it's not heavily discounted.   So it was pretty easy to pass that up.

As for Goodwill, I am sure that lots of people did declutter and donate but my take on it all is this: everyone who donated obviously wore a size 6 shoe and was a S or M in clothing.   Apparently all the larger sizes are much needed for the dreaded isolation weight gain!

We made a trip to Walmart one morning and we picked up a laundry list of items we needed, plus I got a fern for the back porch,  some flower seeds and bought/rescued two badly mistreated, far too wet African violets which are looking rather perky after being squeezed of excess water and allowed to dry out for two weeks.  I chose two that are colors I don't have already.

I didn't do a lot of deep cleaning, but I did clean the front porch rails which were in desperate need.  I also puttered around in the living room.  I wasn't happy with some elements of it.  I nailed the problem the morning I told John that what I really wanted was to walk into the room and feel an instant flush of pleasure which I do with our bedroom and the kitchen.  The living room...It's not there yet.  

My little garden update: the beans bloomed and put on tiny little beans and when the beans were two inches long the plants curled up and died.  I do have two lavender plants that came up, rescued a citrus seedling from the compost, harvested 12 tiny grape tomatoes, seven of which are now ripening on the windowsill in the kitchen, along with two roma tomatoes.  The potatoes have come up.   The one in the deep flower pot is doing well.  The one in the plastic bag is trying.  

I read.  I finished the Miss Read book I'd started and then dropped into Winter Solstice by Rosamunde Pilcher which Bess' mom had sent to me.  I so enjoyed that book!   Then I picked up The Secret Life of Bees which was a favorite when it first came out and then I'd given my copy to someone and so I had to buy a new copy.   I've stacks of books old and new (as in unread, because almost all are used), hard copy and on Kindle,  to see me through summer.   

So officially I'm back.  I have thought for July I might do a diary sort of like what I did the last two years.  Well, given that I'm to keep Caleb for three weeks while the nursery is closed, it seems the best idea for that time frame.  I have two weeks of July before that occurs though so I will continue as normal until then and switch when that time comes.

For July, I hope to get the front porch rails painted and the back porch rails cleaned and start painting if we've enough paint.  I also want to get those extra flower seeds planted and hopefully extend and expand my flowering season for the year.   I think those goals are enough along with the usual day to day tasks and any little extras I can manage as I have money or find goods to work with.  I have a few other ideas of things I'd like to do but I'm not going to make myself any promises until I see how things go financially, physically and mentally.

Meals these past two weeks were a mix of take out, thrown together, a few new recipes, a lot of old ones.  I made plans and those plans often changed to something else.  It feels at times that meals are drudgery and then other times I've thoroughly enjoyed making them.  I have no real clue at the moment what I'll make for meals in the week ahead except that tomorrow will see Gramma's Fried Chicken on the table, pieced out with some chicken tenders from Aldi's freezer section.  I promised John that I'd make mashed potatoes  and corn on the cob as well.  And that's as far as my meal plan goes at present.

I have been saving recipes as though there were no cookbooks in my home.  I am asking myself questions as I find recipes that sound good: Is it inexpensive enough to make, does it use items I typically have on hand, is it something that will keep the house reasonably cool while cooking?  It's surprising how many times I've ditched recipes that sounded good, looked good on screen but they have one or two ingredients that are key to the flavor profile that I never have on hand.   And why save a load of sheet pan meal recipes when I am NOT going to use the oven at all if I can possibly manage without it?

I am determined that this coming month will see us spending less on foods we eat in the month for two reasons.  I spent a lot online stocking our cat/dog food, coffee, yeast. I can spread the costs over two months but it still shortens my budgeted amount for groceries.  John is a little concerned about our stock of other foods.  I do need to stock up a few canned and paper items and would like to put any and all sale priced meat items I might purchase in the freezer.  So I'm going to try to keep this month's use of grocery funds to produce and dairy for immediate consumption and stock up with the rest.  

I'm really looking hard at what I can make and trying to determine if it answers all my questions: can I do it in a reasonable amount of time, do I have what is needed, is there savings enough to warrant it and is the flavor difference worth while? Bagels, bread, yogurt, pizza meet those criteria.  I could make up rolls for the freezer to use as hot dog or burger buns.  I could make up cookie dough and keep in the freezer for making in small batched in the toaster oven. I do want some convenience items in my freezer, too, but I'm going to look at what's in the freezer section of the store and determine which of those I might make for myself.  I know I can make more for less.  It's the ideas that I lack at present.

So there you are.  A quick catch-up and a quick goals list and a good start for after my little rest time.

24 comments:

Anonymous said...

Welcome back Terri!
I hope you had a blessed rest! But it is so good to have you back!!!
Jennifer from Ohio

diana said...

Nice to hear from you. I am trying to add to my pantry because I believe we will lockdown again. I saw fall decor at Hobby Lobby but not as much and the Dollar Tree doesn’t have any out. I am going to add some school supplies to my list if/when sales start.

Veronika said...

Dear Terri,
I am so happy you are back
Today is my birthday and I couldn't wish f
or better present

Lana said...

You know I bet people just don't know if thrift stores are open to donate. That is the case with us and we have a huge pile ready to go but don't know where we can drop it so it continues to grow. I'm with you on recipes that I do not keep the ingredients for since I never remember to plan to make them and actually put the ingredients on the shopping list. We have had some really good meals lately and then some real duds. We are eating out more since more and more restaurants are back open and we have a lot of money in the account since we did not go for so long. Even Arby's inside with a real fountain drink is a treat!

Have a good week!

Chris K in Wisconsin said...

So good to have you back!! I agree with what one of your other commenters said ~ we, too, are beginning to stock up again. If we don't get hit with this most current resurgence of the virus, I am assuming that once flu and Covid mingle, we will be locked down again with shortages at the stores. Good thing to use some of that stimulus $$ we put into savings over the next few months and stock up on shelf stable items. Hoping everyone will wear masks, social distance and stay home unless necessary to get through this until a vaccine is ready. Again, so glad you are back!!

Karen in WI said...

Terri, I have meant to comment, but it has been a busy month. Good to see that you got a nice break and have been doing some reading, among your other projects! I have been keeping you in my prayers. Is the nursery closed to clean or something? That is hard to find alternate childcare for two weeks. Again, you are such a supportive, wonderful mom, but do remember to put your feet up and take care of you!

My father-in-law passed away last week. Thank the Lord that we were able to see him before he passed as he was transferred to a hospice facility 3 weeks before and they allow two visitors at a time. It has been such a strain on the family though as he spent 3 months alone in the nursing home getting sicker and sicker and my BIL kept insisting he was safer there than at our home. Sigh. Quite a thing for my husband to go through. He doesn’t want much to do with his brother after this. Unfortunately, thrifty FIL who worked at a mill apparently saved his money and pension and had someone invest in mutual funds over the years and there is some money to be had, but I personally feel that no-one deserves a penny as my FIL could certainly have had CNA’s around the clock in his home as well as cleaning/cooking help for many years if he had to. Instead he was left alone at the nursing home. My husband says we must forgive and move on, but it has had a permanent negative effect on the 5 siblings.

I just wanted to quick pop in as I am going to be leaving to drive north for the funeral and pick up #2 son that is coming in from Nebraska. My husband is already there with our youngest. We will be stopping to see my parents for a bit, but outside as my mother is so very fearful of this virus. I feel that I need to talk to her and read her some verses from the BIble. I don’t know if she fears death or the actual process of dying so much?

Well, this hasn’t been a very cheerful note now has it? I have missed your visits and look forward to your writing so much. Have a lovely day. You must have send your hot, HUMID weather to us! Love and hugs to you!

terricheney said...

Jennifer it was a much needed time of respite. Not perfect, but one less thing to do is one less thing to do. Thank you for your warm welcome back.

Diana, I am thinking about stocking up on school supplies as well.

Veronika, A belated but blessed happy birthday to you!

Lana, Yes, I used to tease John that we never even went anywhere but BK drive thru and now it's a HUGE treat to step inside a restaurant, lol even if it is BK.

Chris, I know people must get back to work but we've always been homebodies and I don't see that changing.

Karen, I am so sorry you lost your father in law. I'm sorry to for the family discord. As a former social worker in one of nicer homes in our area, I knew our residents got quality care but a parent in a nursing home is always a sticking point for many families. It's hard for the one making the decision to place a parent and hard for those who feel other arrangements might have been better. I do hope that eventually your husband's family can all resolve the difficulties.

Lana said...

Karen, I am so sorry about your FIL. My Dad passed away on May 24 and even with him at home on Hospice my sister and i disagreed about so much and I feel like a decision she forced on my Mom killed him. It is hard. I hope your husband's family can forgive each other. Hugs and safe travels.

Cheryl said...

Glad you're back.

Mrs. Laura Lane said...

Thank you for sharing your inspirational work this week.

terricheney said...

Thank you Laura and Cheryl.

Shirley in Washington said...

Hi Terri - So nice to have a new blog post from you! I have been praying for you during your blog break - for renewal and for the events in your life that were troubling you. We are also building up our pantry. We live in the country so we keep a pretty good stockpile of food, paper products, etc because of power outages, wind storms and snow. But now we feel like deepening our pantry even more not knowing how this virus will look in the future and how it will affect supplies. So good to have you back! Blessings, Shirley

Anonymous said...

Hi Terri,
Welcome back my friend. So lovely to read your post. I hope you enjoyed the one-less-thing on your to-do list...but happy to be able to read your soothing posts again. :-)
Much Love,
Tracey
x0x

Liz from New York said...

Glad you had a nice break! I don’t know if you have a Michaels craft store down there, but my daughter went to our local one and they are practically giving merchandise away across the whole store. I’m trying to stockpile stuff too, I totally agree with the girls in the above posts...I feel like there’s going to be another lockdown especially here in New York......I’ve been ordering canned pantry items from Walmart, like chili, vegetables, powdered milk, spam, canned corned beef, soups etc. it’s easy and free shipping so why not. Stocking oil, flour and sugar too. I’d like to maybe buy a chest freezer as well. After the store shelves being stripped bare, im not taking any chances. If we do it little by little, then everyone will be able to purchase what they need. It was the panic buying that scared me. People snapping up anything they could and not caring about anyone else. Enjoy your boy baby this week! Best, Liz

Karen in WI said...

Thank you Terri and Lana for your condolences.

Lana, I am sorry to hear of your father passing and the difficult family circumstance. It certainly is hard to go through and have everyone agree on care isn’t it? We are tweaking our will and putting in a few guardrails to make sure everything is clear to our boys. Who knew you had to actually put in your will that all your children will have visiting access and medical info access at all times? The power of attorney sure has a lot of power. I also think it is a good idea to have a separate person in control of the finances. Hugs to you.

Stephenie M said...

I've read your blogs for years, but I have never commented. You mentioned reading Winter Solstice by Rosamund Pilcher. Something that I like to do, as my brain gets a little over active at bed time, is to listen to an audiobook of that novel. It slows down my brain enough I can sleep, and as I have listened to it well over a hundred times, I don't need to stay involved, I know exactly what will happen when. It might be something to consider, finding audiobooks of your favorites to listen to while doing other things. You can check with your library for downloadable ones, as well as CD based ones.

Lana said...

Karen, We are thinking hard about what to do here, too. The thing is if Dad had not said no to a feeding tube months before we probably could have gotten him through the crisis. Also, my husband had always said he did not want to be on long term life support but after being in the coma for ten days we see that these things are perhaps situation specific and so it is hard to say exactly what one would want. We are pondering those things.

Kathy said...

Welcome back !
I'm glad you enjoyed your break.

terricheney said...

Shirley in Washington, I've thought of you and your mother in my prayer times each morning. I do hope all is well with her. I do agree that perhaps stocking is a good idea now while supplies are available. Then if we need to isolate once more we can do so without having the added burden of not being able to find items and trying to figure out plans b,c,d...

Tracey, did your grandchild arrive? Boy or girl?

Liz, I shall look at Walmart and consider ordering though I must confess I've spent quite a chunk on Amazon this past month getting k-cups for our keurig (the lowest price...I'm going to put some packages in the freezer). I agree that the panic buying was what frightened me as well and while I was grateful for my stockpile I surely did feel at times that I should buy ALL the things when I did see an item on the shelf that had been missing!

Stephanie, I suppose I could listen to podcasts too. I have listened to music at times to help calm the swirling eddy of thoughts. I haven't thought of attempting audio books since I have such a load of Kindle books already, lol. I can be a hoarder of books apparently...

Lana, Karen, those too are things we're thinking of at present. We need to get it clear to ourselves and then proceed with making it legal.

Kathy, thank you!

Nancy said...

Winter Solstice is by far my favorite book and the only book I bought the first day it was available. I read it every year starting 12/1 and find it very soothing during the craziness between Thanksgiving and Christmas. Also, I love reading Rosamunde Pilcher's other novels in order (The Shell Seekers, September, Coming Home and Winter Solstice. Her writing is so beautiful it's like I'm a part of the story. Terri, you would love all her books if you haven't already read them. I do find I sleep better falling asleep with one of her books.

terricheney said...

Nancy, I've read them all but had never read Winter Solstice. I'm keeping my eyes open in thrift stores for a copy of The Shell Seekers. I'd given mine to my oldest daughter who loves Pilcher and Binchy (read all of hers as well!) as I do.

Rhonda said...

I have Winter Solstice as an audio, it’s very long and so good!

Rose said...

I haven't commented for a long time but have always continued to read and enjoy your Blog posts Terri. I just have to say that I was born and now live again live in Shell Seeker county (Cornwall UK) and it's very beautiful. We open up to visitors/holiday makers today and expect up to an extra 100,000 people to visit within the next few weeks. I'm 62 and recently chose to retire as an RN as I don't have the best health and working in a nursing home got too difficult on every level. I've already spent months of my life on a ventilator and lived to tell the tale. I'm now living very quietly and making like a squirrel. Very best wishes, Rose

terricheney said...

Rhonda, exactly. It was a nice long book, one that it was very easy to get lost in.

Rose! I was just thinking of you believe it or not, wondering how your Rose Cottage living was going. I'm so glad to hear from you once more. Congratulations on retirement and the move and the better life.